"If it's meant to be, it'll be easy"
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Every relationship researcher and therapist would tell you the opposite: the relationships that last require consistent, deliberate effort.
**Reality: False.** Every relationship researcher and therapist would tell you the opposite: the relationships that last require consistent, deliberate effort. This saying is the most convenient excuse for avoiding the discomfort of growth. Difficulty does not mean wrong partner. It usually means two different people learning to build something real.